used to think that once two individual decides to be together on own accord, there would be sort of a balance or at least an equivalence theory that " you are the one I needed" , whether it is fact or not but at least that would be the common mindset of both.

Yet this perception is flawed right from the very start. We humans are always greedy, why strike a balance when it's possible to excel beyond expectations?

Or probably it's an understatement to begin with, settling for the minimax. Then slowly move around to see if there's a chance to move out of the ghetto.

The latter scenario doesn't make any feel good ( maybe the player and the chosen later would benefit). It's always painful to be looking at you while you are searching for something else.

好难呼吸喔！